16 Days of Activism

Overview

Phil Cleary

16 Days of Activism Against Gender-Based Violence

Frankston City Council recognises that violence is preventable and is everyone’s business and as such, participates every year in the United Nations 16 Days of Activism Against Gender-Based Violence from 25 November (International Day for the Elimination of Violence Against Women) until 10 December (International Human Rights Day).

Council is proud to join Respect Victoria and Safe and Equal in celebrating this year’s 16 Days Campaign with a number of FREE community events and initiatives to promote Frankston City as a safe, respectful and inclusive community.

2024 Activities

'Dad Time' - FREE activities, coffe & sausage sizzle!

Saturday 16 November, 9:30am – 11:30am at Frankston South Community & Recreation Centre

Bring your kids and connect with other dads for this FREE, fun and exciting event!

Designed for fathers with children aged 11 and under, it’s all about creating a supportive environment and strengthening family bonds through a range of engaging activities and men’s support services

Activities include; soccer, basketball, crafts, face painting, balloon twisting and much more!

The event will have free coffee from Frankie’s Training Cafe and a sausage sizzle to keep everyone satisfied!

Find more informationhere or email fscrc@frankston.vic.gov.au

‘Manhood, Mates & Me’ – FREE dinner and discussion for men

Wednesday 27 November, 6:30pm – 8:30pm (further details below)

Frankston Council and Mornington Peninsula Shire are inviting men from local community groups and grassroots organisations to join us for a FREE dinner and discussion on forging positive and healthy masculinity in modern times.

Jai Tao from Brother Nature will facilitate discussion-based workshop about ‘manhood’ and how we can better support the wellbeing of boys and men in our lives.

Jai who is a practising Buddhist, was previously a professional MMA fighter, before becoming one of Australia's most respected fight coaches training over 20 national champions.  

Jai has worked for number of years with boys and men in the mental health and wellbeing field with The Men's Project, Nirodah and Jesuit Social Services facilitating workshops on the ‘Man Box.

Bookings essential, to register your interest – please email jason.rodwell@frankston.vic.gov.au

FrankTALK with Rosie Batty AO

Saturday 7 December, 4:30pm – 5:30pm at Frankston Library
Join us at Frankston Library for an unforgettable FrankTALK with family violence advocate Rosie Batty AO, as part of 16 Days of Activism.

When her 11-year-old son Luke tragically lost his life at the hands of his father, Rosie Batty was catapulted into the media spotlight. But from the very start, she made sure her story was never just about her own horrific tragedy.

With fierce determination and incredible courage, Rosie channelled her grief into a tireless and inspirational crusade against domestic violence, becoming a beacon of hope and a powerful catalyst for systemic change.

Copies of Rosie's book ‘Hope’ will be available for purchase on the night.

Bookings essential, reserve your free ticket here.

Information Packs for Sports & Recreation Clubs

Council has created an ‘Information Pack’ to support sports and recreation clubs to participate in 16 Days of Activism by building community awareness, promoting respectful behaviour, and encouraging inclusivity within sports environments.

The ‘Information Pack’ provides Clubs with knowledge and tangible resources to participate in this campaign through;

  • Club Participation: By organising a "Respect Round" by wearing orange, sharing promotional materials, and making speeches to raise awareness. Council will provide arm band tape and printed flyers for your match.
  • Social Media: Clubs are encouraged to share curated campaign messages on social media using hashtags like #16Days and #callitout, with ready-made tiles and captions provided.
  • Support Resources: Guidance is offered for handling sensitive disclosures, addressing potential backlash and a list of support services
  • Beyond the Campaign: Promoting Frankston’s Fair Access Policy and Gender Inclusive Toolkit to support ongoing gender equality in sports. These resources help clubs create an inclusive environment for women and gender-diverse people.

Register for an ‘Information Pack’ by emailing: leisureservices1@frankston.vic.gov.au

Additional FREE Resources

Council has created a specialised ‘Information Pack’ for local sports and recreation clubs to participate in 16 Days of Activism by building community awareness, promoting respectful behaviour, and encouraging inclusivity within sports environments.

The ‘Information Pack’ provides Clubs with knowledge and tangible resources to participate in this campaign through;

  • Club Participation: By organising a "Respect Round" by wearing orange, sharing promotional materials, and making speeches to raise awareness. Council will provide arm band tape and printed flyers for your match.
  • Social Media: Clubs are encouraged to share curated campaign messages on social media using hashtags like #16Days and #callitout, with ready-made tiles and captions provided.
  • Support Resources: Guidance is offered for handling sensitive disclosures, addressing potential backlash and a list of support services

Beyond the Campaign: Promoting Frankston’s Fair Access Policy and Gender Inclusive Toolkit to support ongoing gender equality in sports. These resources help clubs create an inclusive environment for women and gender-diverse people.

Register for an ‘Information Pack’ by emailing: leisureservices1@frankston.vic.gov.au


Previous activities

Learn more about how we have supported 16DoA in previous years.

2023

Launch Event: 15th Annual Walk Against Family Violence

Friday 24 November

11am at Parliament House Steps, Melbourne CBD.

Join Respect Victoria on its 15th annual walk against family violence.

This is free community event, find out more by visiting Annual Walk Against Family Violence


FREE ‘Upstander’ Training for Community

Tickets are limited, reserve your spot by clicking link clicking your preferred date:

By attending this free training, you will learn new essential skills to help prevent violence and build new social connections with like-minded people.

As part of the Frankston & Mornington Peninsula Family Violence Collaborative, this training delivered by WHISE provides an opportunity to understand the connections between mental health, gender equality and respect to help stop violence before it starts.

Please note that this event is for intended for individual community members or those with a connection to a community-based group)


Have your Say: 2024-2028 Family Violence Prevention Plan

Frankston City Council is developing a new 4-year action plan for how we can all work together to prevent and reduce the likelihood of family violence.

Family violence includes domestic and partner violence and is experienced by all ages, genders, income levels and cultures.

Your feedback will help us plan actions that individuals, community groups and Council can take to prevent family violence before it starts by working together as a community to treat one another with kindness, respect and equality creates safe and positive relationships.

Please complete our survey before 5pm, 12 December 2023 to let us know what actions you are interested in being part of and what you would like Council to lead.

For more information, please email jason.rodwell@frankston.vic.gov.au


‘16 Days 4 Kids’ Activity Toolkit

Activities for kids are available at our local libraries and community centres.

The #16DAYS4KIDS 2023 campaign was created by WHISE, in collaboration with the Promoting Respect and Equity Together (PRET) Regional Partnership.

The toolkit has beautifully designed colouring-in pages, activities and resources. It aims to involve children by exploring what gender equality and respect means. Each design demonstrates how respect can be shown.

Teaching children about respect and gender equality is crucial for their personal and social development. It equips them with essential life skills, fosters positive relationships, and contributes to a more compassionate and harmonious society. By doing these activities, we create an opportunity to have meaningful conversations with children about these topics.

2022

Launch Event – 16 Days of Activism with Phil Cleary

Friday 25 November 1pm – 2:30pm at Functions by the Bay
Council is hosting a special community presentation from former footy legend and independent MP on understanding the root causes of violence and how we can work together to stop violence before it starts.


‘Love Shouldn’t Hurt’ Presentation & Morning Tea (Women-Only Event)

Tuesday 29 November 9:30am – 10:30am at Karingal PLACE Neighbourhood Centre

Join us with experts from Peninsula Community Legal Centre for a facilitated discussion on why “Love Shouldn't Hurt” and what to look out for when your relationship doesn’t feel right. Access to referral and resources will be available.


FrankTALK with Jane Gilmore: Teaching Consent

Thursday 1 December 7pm – 8pm at Carrum Downs Library
Join us with author Jane Gilmore discussing her books ‘Teaching Consent’ on respectful relationships education and ‘Fixed It’ as a response to the media portrayal of men’s violence against women in Australia.


Strong Sisters Sports Festival

Saturday 10 December 12pm – 4pm at Belvedere Reserve (Oval 1)
The Strong Sisters Sports Festival initiative aims to motivate women and girls to reach their fullest potential by engaging in physical activity and strengthening their bodies and mind.

To empower women and girls to participate in sport, Council in collaboration with Strong Sisters is hosting a 'COME & TRY DAY' with a variety of local sports including footy, soccer, cricket, tennis, netball, archery and more!

2021

Walking 16 K’s in 16 Days – Steps for Respect
Respecting Seniors Network in partnership with Zonta Melbourne South East and Zonta Mornington Peninsula led a walking campaign against:

  • ageism
  • sexism
  • violence.

The Network encouraging participants to walk at least 16 K’s in 16 Days to raise awareness of older survivors of family violence.

Key messages from the campaign centered around ‘Respect Is’ were projected onto the Frankston Arts Centre during the week.

Cooking & Craft Workshops
Community members were invited to participate in the campaign by creating food dishes and or craft with orange as the key colour or ingredient and share an image on Facebook or Instagram using the hashtags #Frankston16DoA #16DoA #CookingWithOrange

Respect is.... L2P Program
In partnership with Women’s Health in the South East, Council worked with L2P mentor drivers to strengthen their knowledge and understanding around factors that contribute to gender-based violence and explore appropriate ways to respond to disclosures from learner drivers.

For more information about our L2P program please visit the VicRoads website.

2020

FrankTALK with Ruth Claire
Award winning author of the acclaimed memoir, ‘Enemy’ and passionate advocate for the rights of women and children and a speaker on domestic violence. Ruth is open, inspiring, entertaining and believes honest discussion about the things that hurt us can be the beginning of real change.

Watch the FrankTALK here

Local Business ‘Respect Victoria’ Kits
Council partnered with local businesses and cafes by providing them with a ‘Respect Campaign kit’ containing stamps for take away coffee cups, containers and sandwich bags with the ‘Respect Women, Call It Out’ message, as well as bookmarks with support service contacts and posters to create awareness and encourage conversations about respect in the community.

Youth Crafting Against Gender-Based Violence
Frankston Youth Services had at least 8 young people involved in the campaign by decorating their homes and gardens orange over the 16 Days campaign to spread the Respect messaging in their local neighbourhoods.

2019

Community Event: 45 Shoes – Call It Out For Her
An installation of 45 shoes to represent the women who have tragically lost their lives to violence in Australia this year. The event provides an opportunity to reflect on the impact of violence against women and how we can all play a role to stop this from happening by calling out sexism, sexual harassment and disrespect towards women in our everyday lives.

2018

Community Presentation: Jax Jacki Brown on gender & intersectionality
The purpose of this event was to raise awareness of the diverse experiences of gender inequality through the exploration of intersectionality, with a focus on disability and LGBTQI and how society can construct multiple forms of discrimination experienced across the life course. Jax Jacki Brown provided a powerful insight into the reasons why society needs to change, rather than people with disabilities. 

Orange ‘ribbon bombing’ Activity — Zonta Melbourne South
Zonta bombed trees in the following locations with orange ribbons to raise awareness of gendered violence, and encouraged the community to take a ‘selfie’ hugging the tree (‘hug a tree’) and post on social media with the listed hashtags: Wells Street Plaza; Shannon Street Mall; and Davey Street out the front of the council build and Frankston Arts Centre.

2017

Celebrating female participation and leadership in sports
The council hosted an event for local sporting clubs at the Frankston Yacht Club on ‘female participation and leadership in sports’. The focus of this campaign was to challenge social cultures and behaviours around female participation in sport by celebrating the achievements of local women. The guest speakers included:

  • Sarah Hosking from Carlton Football Club, AFLW, who played in the inaugural match of the Women’s AFL Premier League and has a strong message for young women to follow their passion.

  • Meaghan Densely, Commodore of Frankston Yacht Club, who was the first female and youngest person to become a Commodore of a yacht club in Australia, and spoke to the influence of sports clubs on building young people’s leadership skills.

  • Students from Frankston High School spoke about their project on gender stereotypes, and showcased the experiences of one of its female students who has a promising cricketing career ahead of her, and who spent her childhood playing in ‘boys’ teams.

WHISE coffee cups campaign
Council worked in partnership with WHISE and the Frankston Mornington Peninsula Family Violence Network to deliver disposable coffee cups to local cafes, promoting the campaign’s key messages.

2016

One Million Stars to End Violence
In 2016 the council collaborated with Vicinity, the retail asset management company, to host star weaving workshops at Bayside Shopping Centre in support of the One Million Stars to End Violence campaign. The focus of this campaign locally was to raise awareness within the community of the relationship between gender inequality and gendered (family) violence. Local cafes were also supported to distribute campaign coffee cups designed by WHISE

Gender Equity Storytime
Frankston City Libraries and all kindergarten’s located in Council-owned facilities were invited to participate in a Gender Equity Storytime during the 16DoA. The libraries and kindergartens each received a copy of Princess Smartypants by Babette Cole, a post of the UN Convention of Rights of the Child, frog stickers for the children to be handed out as part of the craft activity and a poster from the Let’s Stop at the Start campaign.

2015

FMP Clothesline Project
In 2015 the council joined forces with the Frankston Mornington Peninsula Family Violence Network to launch the FMP Clothesline Project at Cube 37, with a guest presentation by Rosie Batty.


Support services

If you or a loved one is experiencing family violence, there are a number of support services available:

Service

Description

Victoria Police

Emergency, dial 000
Emergency help and reporting of family violence offences.

 

Lifeline

Call - 13 11 14
SMS – 0477 131 114
(24 hrs / 7 days)

Web chat available
www.lifeline.org.au

We are a national charity providing all Australians experiencing emotional distress with access to 24-hour crisis support and suicide prevention services.

 

Orange Door
(Frankston)

60-64 Wells St
Frankston VIC 3199
1800 319 353
(Mon-Fri, 9am to 5pm)

bpa@orangedoor.vic.gov.au
www.orangedoor.vic.gov.au
Dedicated FV Service for Melbourne Bayside Peninsula which provides help for people experiencing family violence, or who need assistance with the care and wellbeing of children and young people.
Links people experiencing or using family violence with the services appropriate to their needs. The service can be accessed in person or over the phone.

Safe Steps
(after hours service)

1800 015 188 (24 hrs)
(Mon-Fri, 9am to midnight)
Web chat available

www.safesteps.org.au
safesteps@safesteps.org.au

Victorian statewide specialist family violence response service providing crisis accommodation for women and children.

1800 RESPECT

1800 737 732
(24 hours / 7 days)
Web chat available

www.1800respect.org.au

National specialist family violence and sexual violence service with qualified counsellors who provide phone and online counselling, information and referral.

Peninsula Community Legal Centre

441 Nepean Hwy, Frankston VIC 3199 1800 064 784
(Mon-Fri, 9am to 5pm)

pclc@pclc.org.au
www.pclc.org.au

 


(PCLC) Assists people experiencing disadvantage who are facing legal issues arising out of family violence such as:

  • family violence and personal safety intervention orders
  • children living with and spending time with their parents (previously called “custody and access” or “residence and contact”)
  • division of property after separation
  • separation and divorce
  • ·victims of crime applications

InTouch Multicultural Centre
Against Family Violence

1800 755 988 (Mon-Fri, 9am to 5pm)

www.intouch.org.au

A statewide organisation specialising in services, programs and responses to women experiencing family violence in migrant and refugee communities.

Sexual Assault Crisis Line

1800 806 292
(Weeknights, 5pm to 9am next day)

www.sacl.com.auSACLFeedback@thewomens.org.au
Statewide service, after-hours, confidential telephone crisis counselling service for people who have experienced both past and recent sexual assault.

Elizabeth Morgan House

1800 364 297 (24 hrs, 7 days)

www.emhaws.org.au/
info@emhaws.org.au

Aboriginal-controlled peak body in Victoria for Aboriginal women, child and their families. Provides refuge accommodation, specialist family violence services, therapeutic support. Support also extends to parents of Aboriginal children, as well as partners and ex-partners of Aboriginal people.

Djirra – Aboriginal FV Legal Service

1800 105 303
(Mon-Fri, 9am to 5pm)

info@djirra.org.au
www.djirra.org.au

Djirra’s Aboriginal FV Legal Service works with Aboriginal people who are experiencing or have experienced family violence. We also assist non-Aboriginal people experiencing family violence who are parents of Aboriginal children and work in the following areas of law:

  • Intervention Orders
  • Family Law
  • Child Protection
  • Victims of Crime Compensation.

Yarning SafeNStrong

1800 959 563
(24 hours / 7 days)

info@vahs.org.auwww.vahs.org.au/yarning-safenstrong/
Dedicated telephone crisis line for Aboriginal people and families who need to have a yarn with someone about their wellbeing.

Rainbow Door

1800 729 367

SMS 0480 017 246
(Daily, 10am-5pm)

support@rainbowdoor.org.auwww.rainbowdoor.org.au
Rainbow Door is a free specialist LGBTIQA+ (Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, Transgender and Gender Diverse, Intersex, Queer, Asexual) helpline providing information, support, and referral to all LGBTIQA+ Victorians, their friends and family.

QLife

1800 184 527
(Daily, 3pm to Midnight)
Web chat available

www.qlife.org.au
QLife provides anonymous and free LGBTIQ+ peer support and referral for people in Australia wanting to talk about sexuality, gender, bodies, feelings or relationships.

Women’s Information Referral Exchange

1300 134 130
Mon-Fri, 9am to 5pm)
Web chat available

support@wire.org.au
www.wire.org.au
(WIRE) is Victoria-wide free generalist information, support and referral service runbywomen and gender diverse people,forwomen and gender diverse people.

 


Kids Helpline

1800 55 1800 (24 hrs / 7 days)
web chat available

www.kidshelpline.com.au
Dedicated counselling support for children, teenagers and young people aged 5 – 25 years as well as parents and carers.

Victorian Aboriginal Child Care Agency

Suite 6, 405-409 Nepean Hwy, Frankston
03 8796 0700
(Mon-Fri, 9am to 5pm)

www.vacca.org
(VACCA) Provides culturally safe family violence services to Aboriginal women, young people and children, including outreach and case management.

Men’s Referral Service

1300 766 481
(24 hours / 7 days)

https://ntv.org.au/mrs/

 

The Men’s Referral Service (also known asNo to Violence)is the national counselling, information and referral service for men who use violence and abuse to change their behaviour.

Mensline Australia

1300 789 978 (24 hours / 7 days)
Web chat & video counselling available

www.mensline.org.au
Telephone counselling support for men with concerns about mental health, anger management, family violence (using and experiencing), addiction, gambling, relationship, stress and wellbeing.

Local business champions kits

Council supports local businesses to participate in 16 Days of Activism and help spread the message. Businesses are provided with a promotional tool kit including:

  •  coffee stamps
  • window decals  
  • flyers.

The following local businesses currently participate in 16DoA:

Local business Location 
 Eeny Meeny 96 Young St, Frankston
Nature Bar Café
4 Wells St, Frankston
Flourish Café
44 Norman Ave, Frankston South
Little Olly's
Oliver’s Hill Carpark, Frankston South
Ducky Brown Gateway
230 Cranbourne Rd, Langwarrin
Momentum Café
Shop S013 - Karingal Hub
Coffee For the People Roasting Co.
37 Armstrongs Rd, Seaford
Frankies Coffee & Eats
Ballarto Rd, Carrum Downs
Sandbox Café
75 Sandhurst Boulevard

Please email us at  business@frankston.vic.gov.au  for more information or to find out how your local business can get involved. 


Reading list

Visit the Frankston City Libraries website to find a selection of books suitable for all ages which explore issue such as:  

  • gender equality
  • activism  
  • gender based violence.

More information

Visit the UN Women website or contact us for more information about 16 Days of Activism.